Many people believe that the kids simply bounce back after a while and go back to their every day lives. While it’s true they get back into their normal routine after a while, have they truly “bounced back?” For the great majority of children, the answer is no. They are suffering very much and are not able to communicate it. But if you as a parent are struggling so much with the loss of your marriage, how can you help your children cope? There are many great gifts God gave parents – fathers and mothers alike – that you can draw upon to help your children even in the midst of such pain. Chapter 8 in the book is a great resource for this issue.